So don't give up! If you belong to one of these associations, great—your work is half done. There's little time to find common interests not to mention the environment isn't conducive to holding a conversation. If you have tried dating using apps and sites before with no luck, consider using a different app.
No one else is gonna do this for you, but now you have the exact steps to take to get a group of guy friends together, and you meet other gay guys besides clubs and bars know how to meet quality gay guys outside the gay scene.
You'll meet people. Friends are not hard to find. Volunteer This particular suggestion is a twofer when you think about it. I hate going now to bars there use to be good quality guys there but not any more. Go somewhere.
I don't even really have gay friends, except for one, and I met him online heh.
But fantasizing and doing something to make it happen are two different things. I met my husband on MySpace. Tips and Pointers: Obviously, going to a local gay-friendly church or spiritual center should be about your spiritual nourishment and well-being. Buy about 49 candy bars. It may feel awkward to introduce yourself to new people, but you just gotta suck it up and realize that some people are gonna become your friends and others aren't.
Meet other gay guys besides clubs and bars than a few happily partnered gay men have reported that they met their man through this approach.
I agree with others, if we're "out" our chances of finding others is a lot better.