If l learned anything when my husband and I were in couples counseling it is that there are always two sides to every story. And the baby was very sick. He was a karate teacher, martial arts, a strong guy, looked like Sylvester Stallone, and gay was not one of the issues I thought about with him. Did it justify him never tell me why?
I did not trap him no matter how trapped he felt. It does, and your relationship shows that it exists. It sounds like he's probably bi-sexual if you are having amazing sex with him, but he's ashamed to talk about that aspect of his sexuality.
It's unnecessary and derisive when "gas-lighting" works just as well. Notify me when new comments are posted. Do I believe him?
The individuals in the couple need to have their eyes open about that. All it does is confuse people. It seems wrong to me that you would continue to have a point of view that since you used the word Gay, you assume people reading are not looking at the rest of the details and how you are bending your definition and erasing bisexuals.
He wants to remain married cause he loves me and calls me his best friend. Submitted by Mary on April 21, - pm. Without consent then we are entering the territory of rape. Why the term "pussy eating" for cunnilingus when it's just licking involved?
He is slightly older and also identifies as heterosexual. Plus, I was already beaten down after two years in that marriage because he was very abusive. It sounds like he's probably bi-sexual if you are having amazing sex with him, but he's ashamed to talk about that aspect of his sexuality.
Was I imperfect?