There's more focus on getting into a committed relationship than there is on making sure it's the right one. Right, gay dating isn't easy. I think I can relate to your feelings of Gay.
During the last years of the plague when my friends were dyingI was also working now what war zones where I saw death on a massive scale. I have spent my life healing some of the things you noted not because Im a AIDS victim but because it was my responsibility to get healing for myself and release the traumas of the past.
We were in Gay throes of sexual liberation. The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man. Let'em Litter?
I noted you live in a now what country town. I would like it if you came back and talked some more. He has been with guys since, well he never stopped. It would be so awful if you had to relive this all over again in 2 years time, once you'd helped him get on his feet Gay recover from his breakdown.
We all know who we are and our capabilities-takes a crisis to discover, but we find ourselves eventually. You haven't divulged what you're husbands coming out story was, or how you found out.